Do Muslim men have to love their wives? Muslim women will not like the final answer

Well it had to happen, yet another Muslim had to feel the pressure of trying to defend how mean Allah seems to be towards women and he did a bad job as expected. You will notice that Muslims at Speakers Corner love to attack the Bible more than they talk about the Quran and this seems to be because their teachers have programmed them to do this, so that they will not spend too much time getting deep into the Quran, which would then allow them to see how mean Allah seems to be. They like to quote verses in the Bible where God punishes sinners in different ways, but I have noticed that Muslims will completely stay away from the verses where God gives the repentant people some amazing rewards. But this is not the case in the Quran and things are even worse for the believing women as well, because their husbands can beat them if they just fear disobedience, while Christian men are required to love their wives.